An independant woman often frightens men, and that's okay.
Some men like the needy type of woman that will stalk them in the place of a profession.
You talk about a cool trip you took last weekend and he has to share one that’s even better. He’ll eventually embarrass the hell out of himself and his friends won’t let him live it down. Crystal Crowder Crystal Crowder is a freelance writer and blogger.
He has to come up with something more impressive than anything you have to say. You know that little voice in the back of your mind that’s constantly analyzing every moment when you start flirting with a guy? Except when they feel intimidated, the little voice is so loud they can’t maintain a conversation. She's a tech geek at heart, but loves telling it like it is when it comes to love, beauty and style.
They know that if they screw up you will not feel obligated to stay with them, because unlike the others, you are not financially, emotionally, personally, or in any way dependant on them.
They don't pay your bills, you live in your own place, and support yourself.
So they are around because you want (not need) them.