You also don’t want to psych yourself out about it either.
Are you making plans for spending time together in the future? Being approached to have “the talk” can feel intimidating.
Nobody likes getting ominous “we need to talk” text messages, and if he feels put on the spot, he may have a hard time expressing himself.
Be willing to walk away if it becomes clear that you’re not looking for the same thing.
How he responds is a good indicator of his character.
We haven’t talked about the future, but I don’t want to sleep with him until we’re in a committed relationship.