The world teaches that you are supposed to put your kids and your parents before your spouse. We are so quick to say I believe the Lord has given me this person. If the person is not Christian, then the Lord didn’t give you that person. Many people get into relationships and when they break up they find out that they were not really in love. Not only are you to lead each other by the way you live your life, but you have to worship together. You will start saying, “maybe I’m too this, maybe I’m too that, maybe I need to start looking like this, maybe I need to buy that.” That is idolatry and of the devil. He wants you to keep on knocking and one day He is going to say, “enough, you want it? If you seek to enter into a relationship with an unbeliever not only is it wrong, you will regret it, and you will be hurt. There are so many things in this world that help you deceive yourself. In a relationship you both are going to learn from each other, but the woman takes the submissive role and the man takes the leadership role. Is he living in godliness and seeking to obey the Word? Christian dating does not consist of casual dating, which is unbiblical. Love does not envy, is not boastful, is not conceited, does not act improperly, is not selfish, is not provoked, and does not keep a record of wrongs. To marry and be a representation of Christ and the church. “Oh Lord I want to love and lay down my life for someone just like you loved and laid down your life for me.”Are you able to leave your mother and father? The love between a father and his daughter is so great. Imagine His seriousness if you lead His daughter down the wrong path. Honor them as heirs with you of the gracious gift of life, so that nothing may interfere with your prayers. If you feel the temptation just stop don’t lie to yourself. Kissing for a long period of time with someone who you are not married to is wrong, it is a form of foreplay, and it will cause you to fall. Waiting and disciplining yourself in many areas will make your sexual relationship in marriage more unique, special, godly, and intimate. This is something that you should really pray about and listen to the Lord. I’ve heard some guys say, “I can handle it I’m strong enough.” No you’re not! If God blesses you with a very beautiful godly woman or handsome man that is OK, but looks are not everything. Look for godliness because a husband is to one day be your spiritual leader. This type of dating will leave you broken and all over the place and I’m not even talking about sex. Love finds no joy in unrighteousness but rejoices in the truth. Do you have any responsibilities or are your parents paying for everything? Is there kissing in the Bible that applies to dating? It is a good idea when Christians don’t kiss before marriage because when you kiss there is no going back you can only go a step farther. The desires for the opposite sex are so strong that we are told to run. If you are looking for a supermodel you must know that extreme pickiness is not good and also there is a strong chance that you are not a supermodel. Look for his love for the Lord and the advancement of His kingdom. Do not bible verses on dating unbelievers unequally yoked with unbelievers. Or what portion does a believer share with an unbeliever? Therefore go out from their midst, and be separate from them, says the Lord, and touch no unclean thing; then I will welcome you, and I will be a father to you, and you shall be sons and daughters to me, says the Lord Almighty.For what partnership has righteousness with lawlessness? To the rest I say I, not unbwlievers Lord that if any brother has a wife who is an unbeliever, and she consents to live with him, he should not divorce her.Store up the choice food so that you will not be hungry when that choice food is gone. forms of all of these have been around since Biblical times for a reason.I can’t image having to tell my hungry and crying child that there is no more food for them.
But understand this, that in the last days there will come times of difficulty.I do find so much wisdom to be gleaned from the Scripture, however, and some verses speak more to me regarding prepping than others. Our society has gotten so far away from simple, basic meals that many don’t even know how to prepare something as simple as a pot of dried beans!I thought I’d share a few of my favorite verses with you here today. Our demand for “easy and now” has led our society down a treacherous path. Teach our children how to grow and then preserve their own food, to “make do” and to save their money so that they aren’t shackled by debt.I believe that we are charged with taking care of our family, and that is the approach I take to preparing.I believe that simple preparing and planning will help minimize impacts on my family during leaner times (we have them each year based on the ebb and flow of work) and also keeps us focused on what’s important to us.