Well, that’s because our mind craves for new sexual experiences that can heighten the arousal all the time.[Read: Top 50 kinky sex ideas to have a sexually exciting relationship] Just like that, phone sex can give you the much needed variety and the heightened sense of arousal, especially when both of you aren’t around each other.Just like you need foreplay to enjoy passionate sex in bed, you need to be patient and set the mood right before you start talking dirty.
Sometimes, even watching your own body can distract you.
[Read: The art of arranging a sex bedroom] #2 Cancel call waiting.
To start off, just lower your voice almost to a whisper and continue talking.
If your lover asks you why you’re whispering, just make an excuse or tell them you don’t want to be overheard.
] Just so you know, almost always, phone sex isn’t planned ahead.